Dating a really smart guy
If he doesn’t think he can please and impress you, he’s not likely to call for another date and he definitely won’t pick you as a partner.
So instead of returning fire with your own brag, do this: Share your story…just not yet. Take a breath, smile, and give him his due appreciation. As the conversation continues, he asks you about your business. You tell him you run/work for a company that helps large businesses with all their financial needs.
Doesn’t matter, because there’s a good chance you’ll never hear from him again.
You see, his “bragging” was likely his attempt at impressing you. That’s one of the best things about dating grown-up men — they try…if you let them.
All I have to do is look at my husband and the partners of countless women who are friends and clients and know that grown-up men want smart, accomplished women as lovers and wives.
I enjoy working with all of them and after all these years we are like family. When you add “because” it almost always brings out your feminine side.
It’s likely you chose your career because you help people, get to be creative and/or enjoy your relationships with clients or co-workers.
He’s already happy to know you’re a woman who he can please and impress. If you doubt this, it might help you to know that studies men site “passion, compassion or caring” among the primary reasons they were attracted to their wife or partner. Here’s exactly how to talk about your business or career: Instead of starting by giving your title and listing your accomplishments, focus on why you chose your line of work and what you get out of it.
My coaching client who owns this financial business now says this: I own a company that helps large businesses with all their financial needs and I enjoy it because every day I get to help people solve problems that have potential to impact them negatively in a huge way.
If you happen to be among the many of us who unknowingly turn off good men this way, I bet you see the positive results immediately. Are you ready to have some fun on your way to Finding The One? I will show you the Must-Do’s and “Definitely Don’t Do That’s!